Carrying out similar tasks on daily basis can turn out to be boring. We should bring changes and interests in our daily lives, and experience new things by amending daily schedules. Do some new work which can take away your tiresomeness
Our little attention can bring colors to life. Life is a matter of changeable breaths but it is also a precious gift of nature that is connected to all the colors and styles of this universe. Living without an aim is not what we call life. Life is spent observing ebb and flow, ups and downs. For a person to gain happiness, he/she has to go through sorrow and irritation. Elders say that passing days in every situation is called life. Stay happy and involved in your own life; enjoy the life as much as possible. "As much as possible" means that no human can stay happy all the time. Happiness is earned and lived with, and Allah has to be thanked for it. Some people are cane and they stress about "what would people say?”
Here are a few points for them to remember, so that they can also live a happy, joyful life:
CHANGE YOUR WAY OF THINKING
Intellectuals say that live like it is your last day. The world has a lot who have gone through an accident, which have lost a loved one or recovered from a dangerous disease, their way of thinking is totally different. They value their life and never engage in procrastination. They travel worldwide, learn new stuff. Their dictionary doesn't have the word "tomorrow" in their dictionary.
GET HABITUAL OF WRITING DIARY
Keep a diary and pen down the happenings of day. Some innocent phrase by kids, a funny statement by a friend, chats that become memories and fade away with passing years, can be saved by noting them down in a diary. Moreover, you could ponder over thoughts and important issues in a better and more effective way if you note them down.
KEEP YOUR STANCE CLEAR
It's a reality that everyone desires to be remembered and called in good words, and be regarded as having good character and discourse. If we believe so then we must keep a clear stance on each issue, stick to this principle and not waste our emotional energy. We mustn't take tiny and unimportant issues to our heart.
DO NOT LEAVE TODAY'S WORK ON TOMORROW
Postponement can only increase the burden on mind. If a task is urgent, just complete it and avoid the unnecessary tension.
BRING A CHANGE TO STAGNANT ROUTINE
Carrying out similar tasks on daily basis can turn out to be boring. We should bring changes and interests in our daily lives, and experience new things by amending daily schedules. Do some new work which can take away your tiresomeness
When life revolves around same way, the similarity doesn't give joy and botheration takes over. To ensure happiness, little amendments are mandatory.
AVOID JEALOUSY
Your neighbor's house is better than yours; it has air conditioners or a new car. You have nothing to do with this. Just consider your neighbor's husband works overtime and doesn't take her out for dinner. You definitely who is living a better life. Thus, avoid jealousy and instead utilize your resources in improving your life. Be thankful to God on whatever He has blessed you with.
DO NOT AFFIRM/REFUSE AGAINST YOUR WILL
It is not necessary to affirm everything. Life is really busy, helping others is undoubtedly a good thing but you have complete authority over your life. Therefore, do not agree to carry on tasks that are against your will and if changing them are in your hands then it is better not to make such promises.
LOVE YOUR LIFE PARTNER
Early years of marriage depict a river of love really high. Husband and wife exchange vows to maintain mutual relationship and living every good and bad together. However, as time passes, busy schedule doesn't permit the couple to have a good time. To have a happy life, you should love your partner immensely and share each other's sorrows and laughs.
DO PRAISE
Remind your friends and family that you love them and appreciate their good deeds. It is their right to hear praise from you. This also helps in creating a pleasant environment.
ARE YOU A GOOD COMFORTER?
Sharing other's grieves apparently seems hard. Seeing someone in pain although saddens us but sometimes words do not cooperate with feelings. Try to lessen people's pain with your behavior. Bear in mind that wiping off tears is a good deed.
DO NOT LOSE CONTACTS
Mobile, letters and emails are all ways of communication. Revive your relations by contacting your old friends and acquaintances. Respond as soon as possible when you get a text/mail from an old friend.
BOOST YOUR MOOD
Fresh grooming flowers and wet grass has a pleasant effect on mood. If there's no lawn in your home then bring some pots. Moreover, view of seaside, cold breeze, waves and walking barefoot on beach is all joyful. Try to take out sometime for your soul every once in a while.
CONCENTRATE ON CREATIVE WORK
Sewing, embroidery, cooking are a part of daily routine for housewives. If you have spare time then bring use of your creative capabilities. This can help you not only in passing leisure time but also gaining few bucks.
